I had an amazing planned c section at OPH. I was very nervous going in but staff were reassuring and supportive, and the whole process was smooth and I felt that my baby and I were in capable and caring hands. The operation and recovery were quick and I was back on the ward and in the hands of the midwives not long after.
I had great experiences with several of the midwives, particularly Emma (Scottish midwife), Caitlyn, Meagan, and Shay (an ECU recent grad I think). In particular Emma and Shay were so supportive and made me feel cared for and understood at all times.
Unfortunately there was only one disappointing experience, which was one of the midwifes. I recall they had moments of being caring towards my baby, but unfortunately was also very condescending toward me about certain things particularly in regard to formula feeding. I have previously struggled with low milk supply so I knew going in that breastfeeding would be hard and had communicated this to midwives and doctors and explained I may need to do formula top ups to which most had no issue (as I feel they shouldn’t). My baby was very unsettled due to hunger during the night and I asked several times for formula top ups to help them and this midwife told me it was against hospital policy as there was no medical reason. A distressed and hungry baby surely constitutes a medical reason to feed them, plus I am their mother and ultimately it’s my decision. Instead my baby was taken away a couple times for a couple hours on end to allow me to rest, but I presumed my baby was left to cry as they were not given formula whilst away from me and returned to me still unsettled. When I asked the midwife if my baby had even napped in that time I recall they replied they didn’t know. Clearly, I felt, they had no interest in caring for my baby and following up on their well-being wherever my baby was left. Even the pediatrician who saw my baby the next day saw how unsettled they were and couldn’t believe they weren't being given formula and encouraged me to ask another midwife. It’s really disappointing as my experience with my firstborn at a sibling hospital was the opposite - they were so supportive of giving my baby formula to help them out and to continue to support me in determining if I wanted to continue breastfeeding.
I understand “breast is best” but I think a blanket hospital policy of only giving formula for 'medical reasons' is outdated and needs review. In my opinion, it should ultimately be up to the mother to decide, the hospital should only provide guidance on options.
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